Example social media posts
Telling others that your baby has died is difficult, emotional, and something no one should ever have to do. It can be hard trying to find the right words. Below are some suggestions of what you could say. Included is a link explaining perinatal loss and grief to those who have never experienced it themselves. Sharing the link with others may be helpful in guiding them in how to respond and be supportive.
Breaking the news
Miscarriage
I wish we had better news, but we found out today that we miscarried. We are still trying to understand what happened. Please be understanding of our grief. We don’t know what we need right now other than to be loved and supported. If you would like to learn more about how you can help us, please visit this link:
Stillbirth
We are devastated to share that we experienced a stillbirth. Please be respectful of our family’s needs. We don’t know what we need right now other than to be loved and supported. If you would like to learn more about how you can help us, please visit this link:
Congenital Anomaly
We found out today that our baby has a birth defect that will be fatal. This news is absolutely devastating to us and we are in shock. Please be understanding of our grief and loss. We thank you for your support and ask for your continued understanding as we try to navigate the difficult days ahead. If you would like to learn more about how you can help us, please visit this link: